I wanted to start this post with things you should do to get balance as a mother and a wife. Arrange for date nights, make time to play with your kids etc. etc. But the reality is, finding the balance between being a mother and a wife is next to impossible.
Let's be honest, kids take a lot from you. They need a lot and we give them all we have. Unfortunately, somewhere in this equation our husbands gets lost. The person you used to give your everything to, that had all your time, now has to take the backseat. Sometimes, he does not even get to join the ride.
If you came here for advice, I'm sorry. I have no wonder cure or even any advice really. I think this is more of a reminder to remember your first love, the man who gave you children, the person who made it possible for you to be a mother.
Rather than cleaning the house when the kids are asleep, or quickly going to the shops because you have 30 minutes free, spend it with him. Lie on the bed and talk, let him rub your back, or you his, anything that is not a chore or effort.
After all, if it wasn't for him, you wouldn't have those little time-gobblers.
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Mama Theo.Ri
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